1. 29 Jan 2012
    04:09 AM
    “子どもがお手伝いをしたとき、子どもをほめないことが大切なんだ。「いい子だね」とか「えらいぞ」というほめ言葉ではなく、子どもが手伝ってくれたことを感謝して、喜ぶのが「正解」なんだと。子どもにとって親は大きな存在。そんな親から「ありがとう」「助かった」「嬉しかったよ」という気持ちが伝われば、これほど嬉しいことはない。「ほめ言葉」という報酬のためのお手伝いではなく、「役立つこと」の喜びそのものが報酬になるのだ。”
    親も人の子「子どもの心のコーチング」: わたしが知らないスゴ本は、きっとあなたが読んでいる (via fuyuka)

    2011-05-11

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      助かったとか言われんの苦手だったから 積極的にお手伝いしなかったなぁ
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